How many moms have felt that they have?

let themselves go? and what did you do to get back to the "old" you? or are you comfortable with the "new" you? I am asking this because when I got married I was a size 2...after I had first baby I went down to a size 0 but I think that was mostly because I was going through a divorce and depression...after baby #2 I didn't worry about loosing the weight because I was afraid I would look like Skeletor lol and now baby #2 is 2yrs old and I feel like i have let myself go...I just went to buy new jeans..(back to school shopping for momma :) and I needed a size 7...and I know that does not mean I am fat or anything like that..but I am kind of upset that I can't get my size 2 around one thigh lol and now my husband is making comments like "What the hell happened? A 7?" and then my dad and step mom just came back from Mexico after being gone almost 2 months and litterally the first thing that they say to me is..."you got fat" Now what am I supposed to think! When my husband said it I didn't pay attention cause he always teased me...he likes to joke that I was a size 0 and he has no room to talk cause he is like a size 46 lol so I don't pay attention but it hurt my feelings that my parents didn't say hi! we missed you guys blah blah blah....it was "your fat"...so now what do I do?! lol Just wanted to share some of my pain while I eat fig newtons lol